I can’t do that…

…right now.

Those are the two missing words in that all-too-common statement. 

  • I can’t play the guitar
  • I can’t hit a baseball
  • I can’t write good content
  • I can’t speak Spanish
  • I can’t dance the salsa

…right now.

Because you can learn how to do just about anything. And I don’t mean that in some fantastical, “you can do it”, Disney-movie sense.

Because it won’t be easy. It might feel painfully uncomfortable. In fact, it definitely will. 

But the human brain is capable of learning anything with enough time and deliberate practice.

But if it’s a skill, meaning it can be learned and isn’t some genetic issue (and most skills aren’t), it can be done. By you. 

The question becomes whether or not you 1) have the time and 2) want to put in the effort.

But if the answer is, “No, I don’t want to do that,” then fine. No harm, no foul. Don’t worry about it. 

But change the language. “I don’t want to…” is much different than “I can’t.”

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I don’t like the word “talent”

“Talent” is something you’re born with… It’s innate, unchanging, and implies that if you don’t already have it, you never will.

“Skill” is a more accurate term. Skills can be learned, and most everything we consider to be talents are actually skills.

  • Musical abilities
  • Public speaking
  • Leadership
  • Writing
  • Painting
  • Inventing
  • Salesmanship
  • Teaching

People aren’t born to do these things. They try them out and persevere through the poor quality and failed early efforts until they get better.

Calling a musician “talented” might actually be an insult. Why?

Because it dismisses all the hard work they put in to develop the skill of musicianship.