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by Nathan Coumbe

Touching the hot stove

Sometimes, you just have to let people touch the metaphorical hot stove.

We work so hard to enact safeguards that protect people from making poor choices. But those safeguards are often viewed as a shackle on individual liberty, either because they don’t understand or don’t care.

For many, experiencing the consequences of their actions and choices is the only way they’ll learn.

The problem is that, in a society as interconnected and dependent as ours, those of us who know the stove is hot often get burned in the process.

by Nathan Coumbe

Baseball follows the decline of American democracy

“Baseball suits the character of this democratic nation. 

Democracy is government by persuasion. That means it requires patience. That means it requires a lot of compromise. Democracy is the slow politics of the half-loaf. 

Baseball is the game of the long season, where small, incremental differences decide who wins and who loses particular games, series, seasons. In baseball, you know going to the ballpark that the chances are you may win, but you also may lose. There’s no certainty, no given. You know when the season starts that the best team is going to get beaten a third of the time; the worst team is going to win a third of the time. The argument over 162 games—that middle third. 

So it’s a game you can’t like if winning’s everything. And democracy is that way, too.” 

—George Will, “Ken Burns: Baseball“

I would now posit that Americans’ declining interest in, and ability to watch and focus on, baseball directly correlates to our declining democratic ideals. 

When winning is everything—like it is in the new American pastime, football—and our culture reflects that, American democracy can no longer function. 

Baseball has become the jazz music of American sports culture: something we created that truly reflects who we are as a culture, yet no one cares about anymore.

Baseball and jazz—two of the greatest cultural creations that are 100% genuine American innovations—are the same two things most Americans don’t care about, understand, or appreciate. 

We’ve traded cerebral, authentically human jazz for three-minute pop songs, mostly created by computers with singers who rely on autotune to hit anything above or below a 5-note range. A 162-game baseball season over 8 months, for a 16-game football season that lasts 5 months. 

I’ve often said that our declining interest and ability to follow baseball is an indication of social media’s detrimental impact on our ability to focus for long periods. 

Now I’m quite certain it heralds something much worse.

by Nathan Coumbe

Police escorts & football

What does it say about us as a people that we assign police escorts to every college football coach in the nation? At every game!

It’s a football game… It isn’t a debate between future elected leaders. These are football coaches!

Are we really a nation of people ready to attack our football coaches at a moment’s notice if things don’t go our way?

Do we really want to be? It’s just a game.

And if we aren’t that kind of people, then what’s it for? 

To show status? “I’m important enough for a police escort, and you’re not.” Is that it?

At what level does one become important enough to warrant a police presence at all times?

Wouldn’t security guards be enough to protect these men (yes, they are almost all men)?

Surely the police and state troopers have better things to do than this…

It just goes to show how much importance we’ve put on certain trivial institutions in our society. 

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by Nathan Coumbe

A solution to the homeless problem

I live in the Deep South—the “Bible Belt” as some call it. 

One of our quirks? We’re surrounded by churches. 

By most estimates, there are more than 9,100 in this state. That’s one church for every 330 Mississippians.

Many of them are huge. But what I’ve never understood is why they’re so big for seemingly no reason. 

They take up massive tracts of land. The enormous buildings themselves cost a fortune to light, heat, and cool. 

And 6 days a week, they sit almost entirely empty. 

Why not take a leaf out of the “Good Book” and use them for the public good when a service isn’t happening?

What if they became a shelter for the homeless? From the sweltering heat (we hit 104º a couple of weeks ago), pollution, and the elements?

What if they were a place to shower and eat? A staging ground for launching a job search?

My research has shown that some churches throughout the country already do this, but not many here in Mississippi. 

I’m no theologian, but I feel Jesus would approve.

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by Nathan Coumbe

No effect, no opinion

Everyone seems eager to tell others that what they’re doing is wrong. 

“Don’t you know that it’s better to pay the minimums on your debt and invest the rest?”

“Why are you still renting? You should have bought a house by now… You’re just throwing your money away!”

“You can’t possibly know what you’re talking about because it’s not your job.”

“You can’t marry that person—it’s totally immoral!”

Well, maybe there’s a method to the madness…

Maybe you want those payments gone so you have total control over your income.

Maybe you’re still renting because you don’t know where you want to live yet. Or you don’t have enough money to cover repairs if something major happened. Or—GASP— you want to pay cash for a house! And renting is just buying you time until you’re ready. How crazy is that?

Or maybe you know exactly what you’re talking about, and you understand THEIR point of view too. You simply don’t want to live the same way as them. 

Here’s a rule I think more of us should live by: 

Unless my behavior affects you, you don’t get to have an opinion about it.

And the magic of it? This works for everything.

If you don’t approve of gay marriage, then don’t do gay marriage yourself. But that doesn’t give you the right to dictate someone else’s lifestyle. Because their behavior doesn’t affect you.

If you want to live a debt-free lifestyle, other people don’t get to tell you you’re an idiot because “that’s just not normal.”

And if you don’t want to wear a helmet when driving on your motorcycle, you do you. Your behavior is only going to kill you…

On the other hand, you can’t smoke in a restaurant or movie theater. Because your behavior affects my health, safety, and well-being.

You can’t dump your toxic waste in our waterways… Because by definition, it’s communal—it belongs to (and affects) everyone.

And you can’t text and drive. “Well that’s just my behavior – you can’t tell me what to do.” Actually, yes I can. Because while you’re texting and driving, you might smash into me at 70 miles an hour. 

You might be fine, but I’d still be dead.

So, the next time you feel the need to tell someone how wrong they are, ask yourself:

Does their behavior affect me?

If it does, say something. 

If it doesn’t, keep your mouth shut.

(Unless they’re asking for your opinion, of course).