Any worthwhile pursuit has a messy middle. In his book A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, Donald Miller talks about what it’s like to cross a stretch of water. We leave the shore and eventually arrive on the opposite side.
But in between those two points, we have “the hard work of the middle.” That’s where the journey becomes a slog, the motions seem repetitive, and the effort seems useless.
Pursuing a goal, starting a business, losing weight… All of these pursuits have that same hard work to be done in the middle.
In almost every case, we start strong and make decent, even quick, progress. But soon after we hit a point where we lose focus and motivation.
“Why am I at the gym for the third time this week? I just want to go home…”
“I really just want to pig out on pizza, beer, and ice cream. I don’t feel like cooking…”
We get frustrated, hit plateaus, and our motivation wanes.
It’s when we hit that point we have to rely on our “why”.
Our reason for pursuing whatever it is has to be strong enough to get us through the messy middle. Seth Godin calls this “the dip” in his book of the same name.
Without a strong why, without a reason to keep pushing through, we burn out and quit.
Not only does our motivation have to be strong, but we have to revisit it every day. Zig Ziglar had a saying about this rule:
“Motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing. That’s why we recommend it every day.”
First, identify a strong reason why you want to pursue something.
Then make time every day to review it. Keep your motivation front of mind.
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