This is one of my favorite lines from Zig Ziglar. 

But I want to talk about my own take on the idea:

People stay where they are nurtured. 

A garden, when it’s planted, will only grow if regularly tended, watered, fertilized… In short, when it’s shown love and care.

People are the same way: 

• They’ll stay with employers who help them grow
• They’ll stay with partners who love and cherish them
• They’ll engage with parents who show unconditional love and affection

But unlike plants, we have the ability to move on. 

Plants, if not nurtured, wither and die. They’re stuck where they’re planted.

But humans can move on. We have the ability to uproot ourselves and move to more fertile ground if we aren’t getting what we need in our current situation.

We need to remember this when thinking of our relationships with others.